He Only Wants You Around. Don’t be fooled by it.
Some men know exactly what to say and do to keep you chasing after them, making you believe that one day they’ll take the relationship seriously and move it forward. They seem to make endless promises, and just when you’re about to block them on WhatsApp or stop calling, they change their tune. Suddenly, it’s all about how much they care for you, how they really want to be with you, asking for time, and telling you that you’re the only one who understands them. And what happens next? You believe him. But let me tell you, it’s a trick. He’s a player. He’s got you hooked. It’s all lies.
In 2009, the musician La Roux released a single called “I’m Not Your Toy.” In the first verse, the lyrics say, “It’s all false love and affection. You don’t want me. You just like the attention.” This is a familiar scenario where some guys enjoy controlling and manipulating women to get what they want. They may not actually like you that much, but they don’t want you to date someone else, and you might mistake that for them having real feelings for you. But that’s not the case—it’s about control. He just wants you around for when he’s bored, and he plays with your emotions. He’s unwilling to commit and call you his girlfriend, leaving you feeling insecure and inadequate because he can’t give you the committed relationship you long for. Walking away feels nearly impossible because you like him so much. You’re so addicted to him that you struggle not to like him anymore, even though deep down you know he’s not good for you.
Heartbreak songs resonate with so many people because heartbreak is such a common experience. You’re not alone in this—countless others are going through the same thing. Don’t let this situation destroy you, because it won’t. It’s just a tough moment in your life that you need to push through. Yes, it’s going to be hard, but you have to make a decision: either end it or accept that he’s not ready for commitment. Don’t you want something deeper and more meaningful? Don’t you believe in yourself? I believe in you, and I know you can find someone better. Don’t let him rob you of what you truly deserve—a loving and caring relationship. Sometimes, you just need to get more social, go out more, take care of yourself, and maybe hit the gym. Try to view the situation as if it were happening to someone else—what advice would you give them? I know it’s easy for me to say this when you love him, but if you want to be happy, you have to fight for what you truly want.
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