When You Begin To Sense That a Woman is Taking Advantage of You
Imagine this scenario: You’re in a relationship with a woman who embodies everything you admire. Naturally, you want to care for her and demonstrate your affection. You willingly cover expenses and ensure her well-being, driven by your genuine concern. However, if it starts feeling one-sided, with you being the sole supporter, issues arise. Does she stand by you during tough times or when you’re feeling unwell? Will she lend a hand when you need assistance? Does she respect and assist your family? Is she there for you when you need her? Relationships are fundamentally about mutual support—a balanced exchange of care and consideration.
Here are several indicators that suggest a woman may be using you rather than genuinely interested in the relationship:
(i) Her kindness only surfaces when she has something to gain:
It appears she turns into the perfect girlfriend when she needs something, but once she gets it, she disappears.
(ii) She Appears to Prioritize Material Possessions or Wealth:
“Could you buy me a bag? How about some new shoes? Can you lend me some money?” It’s never “How are you?” or “How’s your mom?” It’s always “I want, I need, ME! ME! ME!”
(iii). She Doesn’t Include You in Her Life:
If she’s going out with friends or shopping, she shows no interest in your company unless it involves your financial support. However, if spending is on the agenda, then you’re welcome to join. It seems like she’s playing you.
(iv). Her Conduct:
She’s the type always scanning the room, searching for a bigger catch. She’s well-connected and money-minded. There’s a stark contrast between a dedicated businesswoman building her network and a professional opportunist. “Oh, I know him—he plays football. Oh, him? He’s a singer!” Come on, spare me! *YAWN* Boring!
Ultimately, we all seek someone who stands by us through thick and thin, someone who lends a helping hand in times of distress. We’re not looking for a woman who’s always available for celebrity parties but suddenly “busy” when you’re unwell or visiting your grandmother.
Of course, we all aspire to progress and live comfortable lives. It’s natural to want things that bring us happiness and ease. However, when these pursuits become a sole focus for a woman, it’s a warning sign. There’s a great song featuring Jay Z with lyrics that ask, “when the money goes, will the honey stay? when the grey skies replace the sunny days?” In the end, prioritize having a woman who supports you for who you are, not just what she can gain from you.
Good luck.
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